In light of the news and conversations about sexual harassment and assault committed by celebrities and other people well-known to the public, it needs to be pointed out that this does not only happen in the workplace, wherever that may be for someone. It really happens everywhere.
One place it tends to be normalized is on the dance floor of clubs, bars, and at concerts. I know it took me a long time to see it for what it is. It is Not ok. How hard is it to ask someone if they want to be touched in any way? Additionally, what are the security guards/bouncers at bars and clubs doing to interfere and lessen this to set a firm example that consent is a must-have? (Nothing from what I’ve seen). It does not have to be this way. I hope this post provides encouragement for men and women to report their experiences and one’s they’ve witnessed to those security personnel, bartenders, managers, etc. Point out the person who made you or someone else uncomfortable. It is true that many you tell won’t care, and I could even go as far as saying that there are venues that are very aware their business feeds off on the people who harass and assault others. Speak up anyway! Nothing will change for the better if we stay silent. There are also many outlets to give reviews, so go on and write one on a club/bar/venue’s Facebook page or on Yelp. Many owners are receptive to this type of communication about their businesses. Lyrics to “Dance Floor is Dangerous” by Memory Celle I won’t dance the way they want me to They didn’t even ask Give me my hat back Don’t grab me Don’t come up from behind me Stop touching my hair You don’t know me! Body weight on mine And I push back When lights go down Hands do what they want, I guess But they look surprised when I turn around Some see women as animals That can be touched whenever they want I’m not your dog! I’m not your cat! No one is entitled to Dance is not an invitation My moving body is for myself And they are still interrupting my fun I’m calling them out on their shit – but they don’t get it Body weight on mine And I push back
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